Turning resistance into cooperation — for toddlers (and trainees)

Principle of “Shared Control"

Offer bounded choices — people want to feel in control, even within limits. Instead of demanding compliance, you create cooperation by sharing control.


flowchart TD
    A[Christmas] -->|Get money| B(Go shopping)
    B --> C{Let me think}
    C -->|One| D[Laptop]
    C -->|Two| E[iPhone]
    C -->|Three| F[fa:fa-car Car]

Learning outcomes

By the end of the 3-min training challenge, participants will be able to use the “Shared Control” approach to turn a direct command into a choice that encourages cooperation - just like when negotiating with a toddler.

Learning objectives

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